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			<title>What Makes Your Man A Player?</title>
			<link>http://www.bocatherapy.com/ask-dr-arlene-blog/what-makes-your-man-a-player.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;When Sally first got a call from Sam, a man that she was supposed to be &amp;nbsp;set up with, she had that funny feeling in the pit of her stomach. By the time the call had ended Sally was wondering what had just happened. Her prospective date had been friendly enough, he had even asked her out for a Monday or Tuesday dinner for the upcoming week.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;That's it she realized; why would a man call you on a Friday morning to ask you out for a weekday date for your first date? Well, for sta...</description>
			<author>Dr. Arlene Krieger</author>
			<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jan 2012 07:37:57 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Simple Romantic Gestures</title>
			<link>http://www.bocatherapy.com/ask-dr-arlene-blog/3-simple-romantic-gestures.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://t3.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcT53rSjO9Ge_qEEqnNxniFJehGRGX6R6W6J_Ype3MaECe_bsDA_ug&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Remember Snail Mail? &lt;br /&gt; Buy (or make) a sweet and simple card. Write a sentence  or two about what he means to you...just because...and  MAIL it... everyone loves mail, and everyone loves sweet  reminders!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt; Simple Pleasures Rub your partner's feet when he/she is really tired at  the end of the day.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Special Surprises &lt;br ...</description>
			<author>Dr. Arlene Krieger</author>
			<pubDate>Wed, 24 Aug 2011 04:44:50 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Power Struggle</title>
			<link>http://www.bocatherapy.com/ask-dr-arlene-blog/power-struggle-188.html</link>
			<description>&lt;img src=&quot;http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcRGo3tPyraVtii02Awo1CfNrGdm_JVFH2S6xyvk6Z76oTdlZEURceI6qNEW&quot; /&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;As you probably know or are about to discover, common relationship problems start shortly after you move in together with your spouse. If in the initial stage of romantic love you've easily overlooked your partner's flaws, when the first stage of infatuation inevitably ends reality sets in and problems begin surfacing.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;But what you've never been told is th...</description>
			<author>Dr. Arlene Krieger</author>
			<pubDate>Fri, 12 Aug 2011 00:48:39 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>The Right Time to Have Sex in a New Relationship</title>
			<link>http://www.bocatherapy.com/ask-dr-arlene-blog/the-right-time-to-have-sex-in-a-new-relationship.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.bocatherapy.com/images/tongue and lips.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;&quot; /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Apparently, these are the perennial questions about sex especially for women: &amp;ldquo;if we have sex, will he call,&amp;rdquo; and for men, &amp;ldquo;when will she be ready.&amp;rdquo; When a little suspicious of such glib formulations, just nod to the spirit of the clich&amp;eacute;s. Sex is messy and complex, and never more so than when it is with a new person. It is important, very important, to hav...</description>
			<author>Dr. Arlene Krieger</author>
			<pubDate>Wed, 25 May 2011 02:11:17 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Online Dating and Matchmaking</title>
			<link>http://www.bocatherapy.com/ask-dr-arlene-blog/online-dating-and-matchmaking.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;img height=&quot;249&quot; width=&quot;446&quot; src=&quot;http://bocatherapy.com/images/stories/online-dating1.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;online-dating1&quot; /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Sounds like cupid is doing quite bit better than OK. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The online dating and matchmaking industry grew 2.3 percent between 2008 and 2011, with 2.8 percent more growth expected annually through 2016, according to IBISWorld. The number of people employed in the field is expected to increase from 15,606 in 2011 to n...</description>
			<author>Dr. Arlene Krieger</author>
			<pubDate>Fri, 22 Apr 2011 23:17:17 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>A Sex Diet for the Sex-Starved</title>
			<link>http://www.bocatherapy.com/ask-dr-arlene-blog/a-sex-diet-for-the-sex-starved.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;img height=&quot;216&quot; width=&quot;365&quot; src=&quot;http://bocatherapy.com/images/stories/sex diet 2.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;sex diet 2&quot; /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Are you one the 40 million Americans feeling sex-starved? If so, what are you feeding your sex life? The same old routine, perhaps, just less of it? Or maybe nothing at all? Or perhaps you’re subsisting on porn or other forms of sexual junk food and empty calories? Are you getting your Recommended Daily Allowance of healthy sex? And if daily is pushi...</description>
			<author>Dr. Arlene Krieger</author>
			<pubDate>Fri, 15 Apr 2011 00:36:29 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Spring Clean your Bedroom into a Love Nest</title>
			<link>http://www.bocatherapy.com/ask-dr-arlene-blog/spring-clean-your-bedroom-into-a-love-nest.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;img height=&quot;179&quot; width=&quot;411&quot; src=&quot;http://bocatherapy.com/images/stories/spring cleaning.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;spring cleaning&quot; /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;Spring is in the air - and so is sex! Forget the romance of Valentine’s Day, the sizzling summer months of July and August, even the nostalgia of your anniversary –- they've got nothing on spring, when all creatures great and small have one thing on the brain: nookie.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p...</description>
			<author>Dr. Arlene Krieger</author>
			<pubDate>Wed, 06 Apr 2011 02:22:07 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Sexting- Not Just For Kids</title>
			<link>http://www.bocatherapy.com/ask-dr-arlene-blog/sexting-not-just-for-kids.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;img height=&quot;205&quot; width=&quot;267&quot; src=&quot;http://bocatherapy.com/images/stories/sexting.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;sexting&quot; /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;When Roger gets to an intimate stage with a woman these days, it usually doesn't take long until the sexy photos start. His dating partners either request that he send them a suggestive—or downright explicit—photo from his cell phone to theirs, or they j...</description>
			<author>Dr. Arlene Krieger</author>
			<pubDate>Wed, 30 Mar 2011 01:25:22 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>The Sex you Desire Vs. The Sex You're Having</title>
			<link>http://www.bocatherapy.com/ask-dr-arlene-blog/the-sex-you-desire-vs-the-sex-your-having.html</link>
			<description>Getting the Sex You Want, Tonight!&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;Get the sex you want, tonight! 5 steps to reconnect.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.bocatherapy.com/images/stories/couplesex.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;couplesex&quot; width=&quot;202&quot; height=&quot;121&quot; /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;How many couples keep having the same boring, routine, disconnected sex night after night? Do you desire to be sexual in a fresh way? A way that feels more connected, more erotic? How do we get there?...</description>
			<author>Dr. Arlene Krieger</author>
			<pubDate>Fri, 11 Mar 2011 01:52:37 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Can you ever be Friends with your Ex??</title>
			<link>http://www.bocatherapy.com/ask-dr-arlene-blog/can-you-ever-be-friends-with-your-ex-.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;img height=&quot;250&quot; width=&quot;410&quot; src=&quot;http://bocatherapy.com/images/stories/exs.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;exs&quot; /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;In most relationships, the time to say goodbye usually arrives at one point or another -- unless you intend to walk down the aisle, of course (and even then...). With your ex, you've shared memories that will either make you laugh or cry, and it's time to take your experiences, put them in your back pocket and move on. But somewhere on the road of partin...</description>
			<author>Dr. Arlene Krieger</author>
			<pubDate>Tue, 08 Mar 2011 01:56:46 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>How to lose your Girl/Guy in 6 weeks!</title>
			<link>http://www.bocatherapy.com/ask-dr-arlene-blog/how-to-lose-your-girlguy-in-6-weeks.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.bocatherapy.com/images/stories/cpls breaking up.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;cpls breaking up&quot; width=&quot;252&quot; height=&quot;170&quot; /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;This particlular tale of woe is told from the point of view of a woman. However, this is not a gender specific problem and just &amp;nbsp;as many women&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;make many of &amp;nbsp;the unforgiveable dating &amp;nbsp;mistakes listed below as men do.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It should have been one of those great stories that Sally cou...</description>
			<author>Dr. Arlene Krieger</author>
			<pubDate>Tue, 22 Feb 2011 22:52:07 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Same Day Therapy!</title>
			<link>http://www.bocatherapy.com/ask-dr-arlene-blog/same-day-therapy-.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.bocatherapy.com/images/stories/picture1.png&quot; alt=&quot;picture1&quot; width=&quot;286&quot; height=&quot;211&quot; /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;We are proud to announce samedaytherapy.com. A new and innovative programming under the clinical directorship of Dr. Arlene Krieger. Our goal as counselors is to create a supportive environment in which our clients can explore their emotional needs and overcome barriers that limit their full potential. We take an open-minded approach to ...</description>
			<author>Dr. Arlene Krieger</author>
			<pubDate>Tue, 15 Feb 2011 23:07:43 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>The Nose Knows!!</title>
			<link>http://www.bocatherapy.com/ask-dr-arlene-blog/the-nose-knows-.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;The Power of Smell in Picking Sex Partners&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://bocatherapy.com/images/stories/coffee.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;coffee&quot; height=&quot;209&quot; width=&quot;317&quot; /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt; Ladies, be honest: When it comes sexual attraction, how important is a guy’s smell? Not just his cologne or deodorant, but his natural scent? At Good in Bed, we believe that a woman should “follow her nose—it always knows.”&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: c...</description>
			<author>Dr. Arlene Krieger</author>
			<pubDate>Thu, 27 Jan 2011 23:17:00 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Real Life Romeos Don't Compare to Dream Lovers</title>
			<link>http://www.bocatherapy.com/ask-dr-arlene-blog/real-life-romeos-dont-compare-to-dream-lovers.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;img height=&quot;200&quot; width=&quot;290&quot; src=&quot;http://bocatherapy.com/images/stories/42-25317731-resize.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;42-25317731-resize&quot; /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;If you've got a soft spot for the tall, dark and handsome archetype, chances are your real-life partner is short, blond and, well, not so toothsome. Or at least that's the takeaway from new research published in the journal PLoS ONE...</description>
			<author>Dr. Arlene Krieger</author>
			<pubDate>Thu, 06 Jan 2011 22:19:49 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Relationships &amp; The Holidays</title>
			<link>http://www.bocatherapy.com/ask-dr-arlene-blog/relationships-the-holidays.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;Holiday Etiquette &lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;Breaking up over the Holidays&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.bocatherapy.com/images/stories/dress.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;dress&quot; width=&quot;400&quot; height=&quot;300&quot; /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Last Wednesday, I ran into an old friend at the bakery. Doing the last-minute holiday hustle as we were, we didn't have much time to catch up. But we've e-mailed a bit this week, and he's asked me for my take on something, &quot;as a dating blog...</description>
			<author>Dr. Arlene Krieger</author>
			<pubDate>Fri, 17 Dec 2010 23:26:32 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Do you Suffer from First Date Hunger Pangs?</title>
			<link>http://www.bocatherapy.com/ask-dr-arlene-blog/do-you-suffer-from-first-date-hunger-pangs-.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;http://www.bocatherapy.com/images/stories/Bad_Date.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;Bad_Date&quot; width=&quot;187&quot; height=&quot;280&quot; /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;There is a new trend among men who refuse to meet for dinner on a first date. The reason that is&amp;nbsp;given&amp;nbsp;- based on the number of first dates that most men have; dinner is too expensive.&amp;nbsp;According to Love Detour Advice,&amp;nbsp;not meeting for dinner may be the reason that a second date never happens. I agree with Love Detour that there is s...</description>
			<author>Dr. Arlene Krieger</author>
			<pubDate>Thu, 28 Oct 2010 00:41:47 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Do the Holidays Bring us Closer Together?</title>
			<link>http://www.bocatherapy.com/ask-dr-arlene-blog/do-the-holidays-bring-us-closer-together-.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;img width=&quot;482&quot; src=&quot;http://bocatherapy.com/images/stories/Pumpkin_Patch.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;Pumpkin_Patch&quot; height=&quot;488&quot; /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;The hustle and bustle of our every day lives doesn't always leave a lot of quality time for the people that we love. With the winter holidays right around the corner - I have begun to wonder, do the holidays really bring us closer together with our loved ones?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Do you find yourself slowing down dramatically and spending more tim...</description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 14 Oct 2010 00:46:04 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>Have You Lost that Loving Feeling?</title>
			<link>http://www.bocatherapy.com/ask-dr-arlene-blog/have-you-lost-that-loving-feeling-.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;img width=&quot;300&quot; src=&quot;http://bocatherapy.com/images/stories/adam-eve5.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;adam-eve5&quot; height=&quot;441&quot; /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Do you remember when you first met your partner? Surely, there was an instantaneous spark. Maybe it was her smile, a twinkle in his eye, the way she laughed, the way he took your hand, crossing the street. Whether you met when you were 18 or 48, we all once felt that magic of new love. Somehow though, as the years go by - kids, mortgage payments, jobs,...</description>
			<pubDate>Sat, 09 Oct 2010 01:09:59 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>The Dance of Romance - What Does Dinner at my House Really Mean?</title>
			<link>http://www.bocatherapy.com/ask-dr-arlene-blog/the-dance-of-romance-what-does-dinner-at-my-house-really-mean-.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;img width=&quot;600&quot; src=&quot;http://bocatherapy.com/images/stories/woman-eating-lemon.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;woman-eating-lemon&quot; height=&quot;399&quot; /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Have you ever had the 3rd date blues? You know, you have gone out on a couple of dinner and movie dates with a guy - everything is going along great and then he says, &quot; I want to cook dinner for you at my house.&quot; Does this statement really mean that he only wants to have you over to his house for dinner or is there more. If a guy asks you to come over to his hou...</description>
			<pubDate>Thu, 30 Sep 2010 00:31:36 +0100</pubDate>
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			<title>The Power of the Spoken Word </title>
			<link>http://www.bocatherapy.com/ask-dr-arlene-blog/the-power-of-the-spoken-word.html</link>
			<description>&lt;p style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;img height=&quot;424&quot; width=&quot;283&quot; src=&quot;http://bocatherapy.com/images/stories/Hurtful_Words.jpg&quot; alt=&quot;Hurtful_Words&quot; /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;If you had a time machine and could go back in time, is there a particular thing that you said to someone you love that you wish you could take back?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;There is definite truth to the adage: Once you say it, you can't take it back.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;No matter how hard you try, what you said is already out there - getting it back is impossible. The d...</description>
			<pubDate>Fri, 24 Sep 2010 00:36:57 +0100</pubDate>
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