Question of the Day: "Should we tell our current lovers about our previous lovers?"

This really depends on why your current lover would want to know about your sexual history? Is it because he/she is the jealous type? Or does your partner only want a ballpark figure without all the steamy details?

The problems that can arise when talking about past lovers with current lovers can range from the comparison of your current relationship with relationships in the past - to the constant reassuring of your partner that they are a better lover than your previous loves.

I think before you come clean about your sexual past, you want to determine the reason for the questioning and anticipate the way that your relationship will be effected in the future once the truth is out.

What do you think? Do you think that the modern woman and men of today can handle the truth? Do you think that it is necessary to tell your current lover about your previous lovers?

Or do you think that the past is the past and that is where it should remain? Even the Dalai Lama has said that he has gotten jealous before.

We would love to hear your comments, please post them below!

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Dr. Ruth Westheimer has recently said that listening to music while having sex is distracting, making it hard to concentrate and permits fantasties from developing. I completely and respectfully disagree and think that is an old fashioned way of thinking. I believe the use of music during sex is an aphrodisiac. The Mozart Effect could have a huge impact on your sex life allowing you to relax and concentrate at the same time, therefore achieving more pleasure in the process.

The Mozart Effect List:

"When your body hears the even, one beat per second of Baroque music, your heart rate and pulse relax to the beat. When you are in this relaxed, but alert state, your mind is able to concentrate more easily. Music corresponds to and affects our physiological conditions. During heavy mental work, our pulse and blood pressure rises, and it's usually more difficult to concentrate in this state. The Baroque and Mozart music pieces on the Mozart Effect learning tapes and compact disks have been especially selected for their beat pattern (60 beats per minute), reduce your blood pressure and pulse rate and increases your ability to learn at the same time."

What do you think? Do you agree with Dr. Ruth or do you believe that listening to some great music during sex and lovemaking is a real turn on?

If you find it to be a turn on, what type of music makes sex hotter?

Please leave your comments below!

Did you guys out there know that women love the idea of a man doing things around the house for them, especially cooking. And it doesn't even matter if the food that you cook is good or not according to Rocky Fino, the author of Will Cook for Sex. Rocky says that your attempt alone will impress a woman more than buying her dinner. So whether you are cooking up a dinner for just the two of you or inviting friends over for a dinner party, your cooking skills will make you that much more attractive in her eyes. And this doesn't just work for the single guys who are trying to impress a girl for the first time, this is the perfect way for married men to spice us their relationship, so to speak.

What do you think?

Ladies, are you turned on by a man cooking you dinner? Does that make him more attractive to you? Are you more likely to become intimate with him because he cooked for you?  

Guys, have you tried cooking for your lady? Has it been successful in wooing her?

Please leave your comment below!