Euphorium Q&A

Question:

I recently found gay porn on my boyfriend’s computer and he says he is not gay but gets off on it. What do I do? I’m so confused...

Answer:

Everybody has what is called a sexual template that is usually formed by the time they are 7 years old. It is possible that your boyfriend observed or experienced something of that nature when he was younger. If that is so it could continue to be a turn on in some form or manner. It doesn't mean he is going to act on it or is as you put it possibly gay. However, this is something depending on length of your relationship, where it is going and future plans that you may have, is something that should thoroughly discussed honestly.